Qualification, what is it?
Qualification is assessing whether a person is a potential fit for a product or service
you have. Qualifying is the act of assessing if something or someone is a
proper fit for you. You can think of qualifying as a filtration process, you’re
filtering out bad qualities you don’t want until your find a suitable match
with the qualities you want.
How do you use it?
Everyone has qualifiers; you need to identify the qualifiers
in people you want such as: the person does not have a negative personality,
they have a sense of humor, they share similar values, they’re into yoga. Once
you know what you're looking for you know what questions to ask, so instead of
wasting a whole night or even worse getting into a relationship with someone
that’s not suited for you for months or even years, you can reduce all of that
time into minutes by simply asking qualifying questions in your first
interaction with the person to determine whether or not you should invest your
time in that person.
Why is it important?
Plain and
simple if you do not qualify, you will not find what you are looking for!
If you don’t
qualify people, your dating life will pretty much be a stab in the dark, always
getting in and out of bad relationships or not even being able to form a
relationship because you have no clue what you want! Think about it how can you
get what you want if you don’t know what you’re looking for? And even if you do
know what you’re looking for how can you find it if you don’t filter your
interactions for the things that you’re looking for?
Example
Say for
example a woman, who only likes attractive, wealthy guys that live a fast
flashy lifestyle, and are only concerned about superficial things, wants a
serious relationship and love. She is wondering why she is constantly cheated
on and used by men, then left for the next girl. The reason why she is getting
cheated on and used so frequently is because she isn’t qualifying for men that are
looking for long term loving relationships, she’s qualifying the type of men
who generally will cheat on women and not care because of the lifestyle they
live and the values they hold. It’s not that all guys are dogs like some women
like to say, it’s the guys that they pursue who are dogs, and if they would
like to find a guy who wont cheat or abuse them they need to change they’re
qualifiers.
Instead of
only qualifying for who can buy her love she should be qualifying for who will
build the love with no price tags attached, instead of only who is physically
attractive, look for a combination of both aesthetics and inner beauty with
more emphasis on inner rather than outer to name a few. Now in a new scenario say it was a man trying
to find the good loving relationship things he would qualify are the types of
women to avoid such as gold diggers, players, spoiled brats, and party girls. You
want to avoid these types of women because they usually have characteristic traits like being selfish, needy,
insecure, and untrustworthy which make them undesirable girl friends.
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