Being self-entertained vs. seeking validation

Being self-entertained vs. seeking validation, what’s the difference? One is a path to happiness the other is a path to misery and neediness.

Becoming self-entertained is one of the greatest achievements you can ever have in life. If you’re self-entertained you’ll never be bored because you don’t need external factors for your amusement, you’re able to self generate positive emotions, thoughts, and actions. If you can self generate positive emotions you are less susceptible to other people and the surrounding environments bringing your sense of state down.

Think about it if you are outcome dependent and need someone to validate what your saying and doing, every time you don’t get the validation it brings your state down because you didn’t get the validation you need. This usually ends with you becoming needy because you keep trying things to get the validation, and in the process of doing so you will most likely turn the person off and make them want to get away from you as soon as possible, because no one likes a social leech.

Being a social leech is not the best way to live your life. Being a social leech is not ideal because when you leech your emotions off other people your happiness depends on them, they control when you are happy or not, that’s a horrible way to live! Whereas you could self generate the positive emotions and entertain your self, which would lead to a more happy life because even if the person your speaking to doesn’t like or agree with what you said or did it doesn’t matter because you didn’t do it for them you did it for you!

Don’t do or say things to get a reaction out of people do it for your self, do it because it will make you happy, do it because you actually enjoy it, this will give you an abundance of happiness and joy in your life that no one can take from you. So to sum up unless you want to lead a miserable pitiful existence where other people have control over your emotions DO NOT SEEK VALIDATION! Seeking validation will not bring you happiness. Being a self-entertained person will always leave you with an abundance of positive emotion that will lead to a more enjoyable happy life.

That’s it for this weeks blog thanks for tuning in, if you have any questions leave a comment or message me at socialacircle@gmail.com and I’ll get back to you as soon as I can. If you haven’t seen last weeks blog on the attraction formula click the link below and enjoy!

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